Okay I admit it, I love to write smut, not porn for porns sake, that's to easy and really it sort of lacks imagination and judging by what and when those books are used for, written for the biggest bang, in the shortest intervals [after all one handed reading can get tedious] a good plot isn't really required. 

 But dammit I got needs and sometimes those needs are best served via two total strangers meeting wherever they meet and banging each others brains out at least on paper or in this case screen [grin]

So I like to write erotic fiction, wait let me rephrase that, I like to write erotic fiction for women. which I do under the pen name of Erotique. [ I may create a new channel just for her to write and chat.]

We have all fantasized about that one sexy encounter with some handsome hunk or hunkette [yes I am an equal opportunity coupler], either on the beach [dangerous places] or the gentleman seducer [rich handsome unselfish, skilled lover].Though you can probably insert skilled lover in all scenarios pretty much.

Of course there is also the other end of the scale, [the virginal fast learner who takes directions well], that we woman then take under our wing and show them the way to manhood.  In which case you want stamina and quick recovery, [uh huh yea that's it, show mama what ya got baby]. 

I like to think of it as my way of saving a relationship, since I know well the disappointment of sex gone wrong. I know I am not alone. There are men out there who could take a lesson from some of the fellas we find in books. I am betting behind every get you squirming in a good way love scene, there is a woman who has been through an, oh no you didnt sexual encounter. I shall recount just such an occassion in my next article.

When writing erotica for us women, I think about all those factors that men oft times do not.  for instance if you're like me you have moods and those moods dictate the kind of lovemaking you want that night or day. soft playful, rough demanding, seductive role play, take me I'm yours sighhh.

Truth is we know in reality a lot of times we are too tired or cranky or bored of the same old thing and sex can if we are not careful become a chore at home Since many of us aren't going to go out and have a series of affairs to try n change that, we then go inside our imaginations for our fantasy needs.

most of us wish we had that lover in real life, which sad to say most of us don't. I'm not saying we have lemons, just that even if they started out as great lovers, they too over time have moods, for some of the very same reasons, but they articulate it differently.

Where we might say I need a little foreplay [like taking out the garbage], they are apt to say "hey honey how about a blowjob!"  Since we love the big lout we forgive him this most of the time.

So that's why there are those moments when we want that fantasy man or woman and that's where I come in.

When I'm writing a story and getting to the juicy part I have a secret weapon I use to give it, it's heat an thats my very own libido. If while writing it I get aroused[yea I said it] then somethings working. I put it out there for you to read and if as one reader commented, it had you fanning yourself or wondering where your vibrator was, then my job is done and you're welcome!