One more reason

Okay, there is one more reason why I love to write smut. So women will stand up and damned well ask for what they want. Oh I know there are millions of liberated gals who do just that,  [ I will not tolerate substandard sex ever again] and that's to be expected after all it is 2009 and celebrated woohoo. But for every gal that says you better come correct, there is one who still feels that 

a] sex is just for making babies and not to be enjoyed [I know one]

b] this must be what sex is [only one partner ever so how to judge] this gals needs some good sex so bad it is making her crazy

c] being overtly sexual is a turnoff  [depends on the partner I guess which then leads me back to ask, learn, discover]

d] I don't think I like sex [ find out why if its a mental issue or physical issue the more you know the better to treat it right?]

So many woman still think masturbation is verboten. yet doctors have said that a certain amount of orgasms a week help keep a woman healthy [good for the heart was the quote]. It also says self pleasuring ensures we get what we want and don't end up frustrated and unsatisfied.

That self exploration also teaches us about our body is a big bonus. The better informed we are the better informed we can make our lovers yes? Reading smut, er, erotica tends to let you know in a very physical way what turns you on so if you are having trouble finding the words to say I need better sex, Hand him or her a book and say chapter 3 you me in the bedroom I'll be waiting.

Hey it works for me, whew am I ever PMSing woohooo!